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hello everyone! this is our help me collum if you have any questions just e-mail us ok!
dear ali and jenny:
i am a very pretty girl and a lot of people say so i am smart and a very talented singer but i cant seem to come out of my shell like the other girls i am immiture and love to hang out with the younger kids i am not popular and i dont strive to be but i want to be at least liked please help me how can i over come this!
well it sounds like you have a very emotinal problem but the first thing is that you dont have to be like the other girls just because the matured faster doesnt mean you have to and dont focus on what you hate about your self focus on what you like join the school play or play some sports to meet new people and reamember school is only one part of your life and it doesnt have to be social meet friends out of school go to dances play up your best features and maby the problem is that you arn't being treated mature at home see if your parents will extend your curfue or let you go somewere on your own although you never said how od you are you soung mature enough to do these things if you are really hurt by this problem talk to your school counseller or if that is not comfortable for you get her to leave the school with you after school or go to a childs counseller at a practice away from school it is always good to get outsiders advice and reamember dont change yourself for anyone
------- ali!
dear ali and jenny:
i am a very hyper person i love to talk loud and i cant pay attention for very long my friends get annoyed at this and dont like to go places with me it is like they dont except me this really hurts me and i cant stop being this way
well first if you friends dont except you for being you thn that is wrong and you shouldnt have friends like that but on the other hand you have to be able to understand them you are a very strong person for being able to recegnize your prob but now we have to fix it go to your docter and get cecked for add (atention deficit disorder) and you may to take pills to calm you down be sure to get this checked and when you find yourself acting out of controll stop! and think is this bothering anyone annoying anyone will this hurt anyone damage there property if these are all no's no one will prbley care if they are all yes take a stepback and take a once over of the situation
----- ali! |
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