Would you stay pals if one of you hooked up?
Dream scene:
He gets a girlfriend: Your friendship remains rock solid; guy bud might even turn to you for advise about his new romance, and youre happy to help.
You get a boyfriend: Everything pretty much remains the same. Best of all your old pal and your new boyfriend hit it off and even get matching tattoos.
Nightmare news:
He gets a girlfriend: Your bud blows you off because: a) he doesnt need more then one chica in his life. b) the only reason he was friends with you in the first place was because he was crushing on you; or c) his new girlfriend orders him to stay away- and his backbone is made of chocolate pudding.
You get a boyfriend: Your new man totally resents the time you spend with the guy friend and gives you a him-or-me ultimatum. Then the guy bud confession his love to you. He and the boyfriend duke it out; one ends up in the hospital, the other in jail. Worst of all, theres a school dance coming up!
Reality check:
He gets a girlfriend: His girlfriend may be freaked by your connection with her guy, and she could say stuff to him like Why do you need her when you have me? She may accept you once she starts feeling more confident about her relationship, but in the meantime, you may have to cool things off with Buddy.
You get a boyfriend: Your boyfriend may feel dissed because youre going to spend time with another guy. If your new love has cast a serious spell blowing off your guy pal. If hes a good friend, hell understand. But he may already be bumming cause he had a serious secret crush on you.
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