Do You Take Your Pals For Granted?
1. You dont have your drivers license yet, but your best friend does. You:
A. Basically expect her to chauffeur you 24/7.
B. Hitch a ride occasionally and pitch in for gas.
C. Hop on the bus, you wouldnt want to seem annoying.
2. If you were having a love crisis, youd expect any pal to:
A. Drop what shes doing and come to your rescue.
B. Give you advise over lunch the next day.
C. Listen a little.. before you hear about her problems.
3. Your gal pal has awesome clothes. Have you borrowed?:
A. Yes. You still havent returned some stuff.
B. Yes, but you offer to swap for some of your stuff.
C. No way, your afraid to mess up her threads.
4. You ask a bud to lend you cash. She says she cant. You think:
A. What a cheapo!
B. I guess she just cant spare the dough.
C. I hope she doesnt think Im a mooch.
Mostly As. Gimmi Girl: Dont turn your soul sisters into slaves by making demands on them. Treat your friends like youd like them to treat you. Before you ask your friends for a favor ask yourself. Would I do this for her. If your answer is no then keep your lips sealed.
Mostly Bs Give and take girl: Congrats for knowing it takes compromise to make a budship work! A successful friendship is based on being considered of each others feelings. So keep on caring and sharing, and youll be even better buds by summertime!
Mostly Cs Cowering chum: Your no nag, but you never rely on your buds, your binds wont grow. True friendships evolves from sticking together through thick and thin. So dont be shy about asking a pal for advise, itll make her feel valued.
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