Break-up?! - Beat those break-up Blues here!! - Love - http://maxpages.com/teenhelp/Breakup411

Hey everyone if you have just gotten out of a relationship then this is the place to go.I'll give you the 11 steps to get over him!
1) Pitch a fit (In private:
it's wallow City and your the Mayor. You have the right to feel really sorry for yourself for 1 weekend only!Rent Tearjerkers, chow down on some comfert food, gab nonstop w/ good friends, write torture poetry, cry until your eyes get puffy and gross.Warning; if you act like you'e totally fine now then the icky feelings will come back to haunt you later(at the worst time possible) Then on Sun it's time to
2)Clean house:
During the wallow-rama your allowed to sleep in his basket-ball jersey. Now it's time to get rid of everything- all his suff (even his gifts)- or at least get them out of your sight. You don't want all those things around you reminding you of him.Either return them or stash the goods in a high shelf in your closet. Then shut the door and...
3)Stay cool at school:
If you want to be a Drama Queen, try out for the school play! NO matter how mad or sad you may be, but keep a smile plastered to your face (especially around you know who) On to the next step.
4)Cut the cord:
Yes, even if your plaining to be "friends" Before this can happen you need to get a hold of your overcharged feelings. Don;t hang out w/ him much. Sure it's hard because you go to the same school and mostlikely have the same friends but state your ground far from him.For the next couple of weeks hang out with close pals, and stay away from big groups that you know who might be in.
5)Prepair for your first close encounter:
If you do go to the same school, a random run in may be unaviodable, but when you do happen to see or talk to him again don't wig out if it weirds you out. Of coarse it will (he was your guy) Be civil and polite to him even if he is the scum of the earth.
6) Plunge into power project:
Try out some new(fun) things to take your mind off of him. Pick only one thing to do and set your mind to doing it. Ex: Bowling league, Rock climbing, Trying to find the best sale in the mall.
7) Spice up your life:
A boy shouldn't be your whole world. Fill the gap he left w/ not only Familiar things but new stuff. Things that you couldn't get when you 2 were an item. Now be happy that there's no Basket-ball game of his your going to miss. Take your time and have fun
8)Quit Watching the clock:
Break-up time is like dog years 1 hour(away from him) may seem like 7 in your world. Sadness heals slowly, sorry that's just how it is Just cause you don't feel 11 percent better the next day isn't your fault Yes I know it's painful but be patient.
9)Resist the rebound:
The arms of another is sometimes the best place to feel or discover how much you really miss your ex. Even if you go smoochin other honeys, and like it soon you might have another little Heartbreak all over again.
10) Just say no to reunion:
At least for now don't go otu w/ him. Even if you do miss him, it doesn't mean you should hook up again. Get your own life back together fist then maybe say Hi to him once in awile. Then maybe once the peaces are together again if you still feel like you love him then it's time to decide if he's really what you want.
11) Understand what it really means to be "Over him":
Lastly what it means to be over someone is you can look sophomore prom ic without crying and that you're also thinking about the new hottie that will soon be on your arm because you deserve no less!

Here are some cool Web sites that you can visit about getting over him.
Buddy up w/ a superhottie at: www.Breakupgirl.com
Chat w/ other Chicas at: www.razzberry.com
Download Delish Dudes at: www.celebsite.com
And scope strange sweeties at: www.fieldguide.com

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