*BE HONEST YOURSELF-AVOID
THE TEMPTATION TO SELF-DELUSION
*CONFRONT PROBLEMS,DO NOT
EVADE THEM-GROWTHCOMES THROUGH
FACING REALITY.
*WIDEN YOUR INTERESTS-STREGNTH YOUR
MIND BY READING,CONVERSATION,LISTENING
*WRITE OUT THE PROBLEMS-POSITIVE ACTION
DEPENDS ON CLEAR THINKING,WRITING HELPS
*KEEP FIRST THINGS FIRST-FOCUS ON THE
MAIN ISSUE,DO NOT BE CONFUSED BY NON ESSENTIALS
*DO NOT OVER SIMPLIFIF A PROBLEM IS SERIOUS
ENOUGH TO BOTHER YOU,IT IS WORTH THINKING OVER
*GET BEYOND FAULT-FINDING-PEOPLEKNOWWHAT
IS WRONG.THEY WANT TO KNOW WHAT TO DO ABOUT IT.
*KEEP AN OPEN MIND-THE BEST SOLUTION
MAY NOT BE YOUR SOLUTION.
*RETAIN YOUR SENSE OF HUMOUR-HUMOUR
CAN REDUCE,PREJUDICE AND PUT THINGS
IN RIGHT SPIRIT.
*DEVELOP INSIGHT-LISTEN FOR
WHAT THE OTHER PERSON MEANS,NOT MERELY HE SAYS.
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