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Dear Queen Bee,
My girlfriend recently dumped me. I can't possibly understand why. I cheated on her earlier this year, but I never told her because I didn't want to hurt her feelings. Could she have found out about it? Since you're a girl, maybe you can answer my question.
~Jeff

Dear Jeff,
Since I don't know the situation too good, this is going to be a tough question to answer, but I will try my best. :) Is your girlfriend the type of girl who usually confides in you and tells you almost everything??? If she is, I'm guessing that the whole cheating ordeal is the problem. She probably would feel uncomfortable talking talk you about something like this (especially if she thinks it's a major diss towards her). If she doesn't confide in you ever, then who knows what the problem could be. I would muster up the courage to ask her what's bugging her, and then just play it by ear. Hope I could help.

Dear Queen Bee,
I'm going out with this wonderful boy, but problem is, I kissed his BEST friend! I like both of them, but my current boyfriend is getting a little, uh... dull. Should I dump him and go for his bud, or what?
~Ashley

Dear Ashley,
No!!! You must absolutely NOT dump him and go for the other guy. But - if you think that your relationship is a bit on the *yawn* boring side, then you should probably gentley let him down... but don't mention the little fling between you and his bud - that would only complicate the matter worse!!! It probably won't be safe to go for the other guy until much time has passed. But when that time comes, if you're still into him and he's still into you, you go for it! If your current boyfriend still has feelings for you then though, don't do it. This other guy is off limits for now.

Dear Queen Bee,
Cool name. Anyhow, I have a huge, we're talking HUGE problem, I have a twin, and she's going out with this guy named Jared. I had strong "secret" feeling for Jared before my twin started dating him. One day he came to my house when my sister wasn't home. I was so tempted to do it, so I did. I said I was my sister (we looked exactly alike). We shared and exchanged a few FRENCH kisses, which I had never done before... but he totally bought it! He thought I was my sister, and he still hasn't found out. Neither has my twin, though. I feel so guilty, what should I do?
~Alicia

Dear Alicia,
Wow!!! You really did tangle yourself up on this one!!! My advice... you have to tell your sister. Kind-heartedly let her know of what you did. She may be mad at you for a while, but hopefully it won't ruin her and Jared's relationship (or her's and your's). It shouldn't at least, because they're both totally innocent. Jared, the poor guy, didn't have a clue that it was you and not his real girlfriend that he was kissing. It's up to your sister if she wants to share your secret with Jared, though. Thanks for listening.

Dear Queen Bee,
Hi. I usually don't date people who aren't christians, but sometimes it is just so tempting not to date someone that you're really into. There's this girl I really like, and she asked me out. I was so physced, but I don't think that she's a christian. Should I ask her? Or what should I do?
~Adam

Dear Adam,
I admire your strength. I'm a christian, too. And I know sometimes it is hard not to follow the crowd when it seems like you're the only christain. But you know what, it sounds like you'd feel guilty if you went out with this girl. I think the choice for you would be not to date her if she's a non-christian. It seems as though you believe pretty strongly in your values, and you shouldn't throw them all away. So... if you do start to feel guilty at all, don't do it. Ask her if she is a christian though. It's worth a shot, and who knows, she may just be a christian afterall.

Queen Bee
Honey Lane
Nowhere	California	22222
dexila@hotmail.com

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