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A young boy on his journey through life, is taught values that are essential in helping him mature into manhood. Throughout this endeavor he is taught many different skills and ideals. This type of learning process covers a broad spectrum of standards that are essential in developing his leadership qualities. These qualities prepare him not only for the work world but also for being head of his own household. He is taught to be strong yet flexible , understanding but firm , tough but not too tough, demanding but durable, and bend but never break in the stormy winds of life. The most valuable lesson in life is one that men seem to intentionally overlook. It is seldom spoke of, rarely addressed and almost never mentioned because it is associated with weakness.It is a trait that strikes fear into the hearts of most men. This great quality is known as emotion and is associated with tenderness , caring and an occasional tear. Although it is essential in life, men tend to avoid it at all cost because they do not understand its importance. It is a proven fact that it is extremely healthy to express outward emotion. It is perfectly alright for a man to have tender feelings and to shed an occasional tear. Tears are not a sign of weakness but of compassion, love, understanding and much much more. They are also a way to relieve the stress that hinders our ever day lives. It is quality that shows others that we are caring human beings and can openly exhibit emotions . It helps us to realize that life is not always rigid and tough but has a fragile side that must be addressed and nurtured. Unfortunately men tend to hold their feeling inside, for many reasons. This type of behavior causes extreme stress within the mind and body to the point that it can affect ones health. It has been known to cause extreme discomfort and permanent damage to the hearts. The saddest part of all is that it is a self inflicted problem that is caused by the lack of understanding and may be avoided just by showing outward emotions . What truly makes a great leader or head of household is not just the ability to take charge. One must understand the feelings and needs of others and be able to share and express them openly. A true leader should be well rounded in all that he does and be able to shed a tear when needed . For such proof is written about the Greatest Leader that every walked on the face of this earth, “ Jesus wept”. Sleep well my friend wherever you may be---------YmiRon Copyright © YMIRon@aol.com Feb 23,2000 >> |
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