Making the Right Decisions
Throughout my life I have always had difficulties with the words that I speak. I could never really say what I meant because I would fumble through the words, sometimes confusing myself or the person that I am speaking to. I have always found it easier to write down what I had to say on paper rather then fumble through the words as I speak. This way my brain can catch up with my mouth and I can say exactly what I feel in my heart without interruptions or mistakes.
While answering your question about what I think you should do. I often end up telling you the pros and cons for the decisions I feel you should make yourself. I do this only because I know from personal experiences that we must take charge of our own destiny. It is not always what we want to hear or do but it is what is right for us. Contrary to what we feel, choosing our own path in life should be what is most important to us. If we listen to others they are usually telling us the mistakes they made and wish they could correct in there own life. Their regrets or decision are based on there own setbacks in their lives. That is why we have to do what is right for ourselves and not listen to others. Life is a learning experience only if we never forget the things we have done wrong and try not to do the same things again. It is better put buy saying” We must learn from our mistakes.
We must always let you choose the path you wish to take because only you can decide what the right choices are for you. We can give you advice and examples but you must take charge of your destiny. That is the best way improve your life and answer the question that lay heavy on your heart. I guarantee this will not be the only choices you have to make in your lifetime.
Have faith in your decisions, whatever they may be and I will always be behind you with my support. The decisions you make will make me proud of you for who you are and what you have accomplished in life. Making you own decision will strengthen your character making you happier because it was your choice not someone else’s.
Just remember one thing; you have not come to the end of the road in your life or career. Where you are is at another fork in the road. Your life will be filled with forks and bends and turns but they will always be leading you forward. There is no right or wrong paths in life to choose from, merely another directions and a new adventure to undertake. Each path may lead you somewhere else but what you do on that path is your choice. You are always in charge of your own destiny and must never give up on your pursuit for happiness and success.
While on a particular path if you should pick up someone to walk with or someone to share your dreams with, don’t be alarmed. You can still reach the goals that you are striving for but now you will have to factor in your partners dreams. This is by no means a problem or a burden to you. It is merely a new challenge. If you stay focused on where you want to be in your future you will find your way to success, and achieve your dreams.
The thing that makes life difficult and confusing at times is you having to asks yourself how bad you really want something. You also have to ask yourself is the goal you set worth the journey you wished to make. Always stay focused on yourself and make the choices that are right for all of you. Others will have faith in your decisions by your ability to make the right choice in your life.
The choices you make in life should not always be about money. It is more important to do the things you love and enjoy doing rather then worrying about monetary things. Whatever you wish to do in life if you desirer it enough you will find the means to do it. This pertains to whatever you choose, jobs, places to live, investment just to name a few. There are no limitations on what you can accomplish in your life. If you have the will and desire to do something enough you will find the way to make it work.
Look at life as a challenge not a burden. Have faith in yourself and the decisions you make. If the path you choose gets to narrow and difficult to travel there will always be another fork or bend in the road to give you relief allowing you to head off in a new direction. Everything you do in life should be treated as a new adventure with and propose an exciting challenge ahead. This way your life will always be full of smile and anticipation.
The one thing that can help you most in your journey is asking the Lord to help you choose what will be right for you. He is your best friend and not your enemy. He has helped me through many difficulties in my life and has blessed me in many ways. God has made a promise to you that HE will always be there for you if you ask him. While walking you path through life always look up and talk to God through prayer and he will help guide you.
Sleep well my friend wherever you may be
Copyright by Ymiron on July 3, 2007
