Create your own website today!
Update your website
Classified Ads
Statistics
Refer This Site
To A Friend
Home

old
americans
rich people
HEARTS
chuckie
Kids Love Story
I GET IT
OLDER
Phone Call
blankie
Forefathers
Loves Invisible
My Friend
the solution
the angel
light






  NEW! Poetry and Doll Maker with Galleries!     [Learn About Our Ecommerce]
Graphics Gallery!




When You Just Can't "Get Over It"


Pain. Without a doubt, pain acts as a common denominator between all of us. Whether physical, mental, emotional, spiritual or financial, we have all gone through agonizing moments. Pain reminds me of being in a room with dim lights. It takes a closer look to find some meaning in the world.


Although I have experienced pain in all of the above categories. I have always had the attitude, "I'll get over it!" I would usually see a ray of hope in even some of the darker places.

Naturally, I carried this mentality into my relationships. I believed people should have the "get over it" attitude too.


Interestingly, I found something different. Before I tell you my discovery, let me share with you some more of me. I used to wonder how a person could replay the same scenarios day after day for years on end.

Although I'd listen to the stories with a willing heart, at times I wanted to scream my motto, "Get over it!" and then I wanted to exclaim, "And move forward!"

I didn't dare. Then I had my awakening! I injured my feet on the job. Not the best place to hurt for a person who loves sports. After about my third surgery, it looked like I would not be able to just "get over it!"

One morning when I took a shower, I couldn't believe how much I ached just standing. I missed the joy of water washing over me. Even my Miss Piggy soap took a back seat to my pain. I couldn't relish one of life's simplest pleasures and I couldn't believe it! I only focused on my feet. Nothing else in the world seemed to matter except for my discovery.



At that moment, I decided to acknowledge my pain and the fact that at least for now my world seemed dimly lit; a reminder of the people I have met. What would be the fate for my feet? I didn't know. However, I told myself the next time I came across a person in pain I would see with different eyes. I would help turn up the lights in a darkened world.   by Eileen Hegel.




Sign Guestbook

View Guestbook


lindamaupin@webtv.net

Domain Lookup
         www..
Get www.yourdomainofchoice.com for your site with services!




.

Visitors: 01509
Page Updated Thu Sep 21, 2000 3:54pm EDT