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I THINK I'M A LESBIAN.
Q ) I've just started hanging around with a
new girl at school, but i think she fancies me.
The other day, when i went round to her
house, she lit loads of candels and put
on romantic music and then put her arms
around me. I felt awkward and left as soon
as posible. The thing is, I've started dreaming
about her and, sometimes, i even feel
attracted to female celebrities. Am i turning
into a lesbian?
CATATONIA FAN, 14, LEADS.

A ) Most teenagers question their sexuality
at some point, and that's all you'r doing.
These feelings you'r having could just be
crushes, or perhaps they're more, but theres
no reason for you to make up your mind
overnight. As you experience more frienships
with both boys and girls, your sexuality will
sort itself out, and whoever you decide to fancy
, you'll still be perfectly normal. If you
need to talk to someone further about this
, call the Lesbian and Gay Switchboard.

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Q) I really like this boy called ___ but I asked
Him out once but he said no. All my friends say
he fancies me just he's a bit shy but I dont know coz
I really like him! Besides would he fancy me I'm ugly.
ANON

A)First thing to remember is that girls mature faster than
boys do, so mabey he just is'nt ready to start dating.
I'm sure that if you give him a bit of time and try becoming
his friend then mabey he might want to go out with you.
ANd the second thing is I'm sure you'r not ugly but if you
start thinking you are then you will lose confidence in yourself
so please don't think that and anyway isnt it the inside that counts?

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Q)I've fallen out wiv all my mates coz I fell out wiv _ coz she got
caught wiv a note in class and acused me of writting it and
I got told off ! Then I fell out wiv _ coz she's bin lyin about the boy
I fancy so I dont go out wiv him! Then I fell out wiv _ coz she
hates me and is trying to take my best mate off me!
Then I fell out wiv my best mate coz she said something offencive
2 me ! But the thing is my best mate had fallen out wiv all of those
but now she's made friends coz she hasnt got ne1 else !
Now everytime they see me they give me dirty looks! I am now
hangin around wiv some1 every1 calls a tart and I used 2 hate
her but she's ok now ! And I am also hangin around wiv this girl
and I think shes got nits shes really nice thought but i dont wanta
catch nething! I dont know what to do pleeze help!

A) Time has a way of healing things and I'm sure that after
a week or two you and your friends will work things out. Dont
be too proud to say sorry I'm sure your friends miss you
too and they won't make the first move. Your new friends
dont sound that bad though and when you do make up
with your old friends ( i'm sure you will ) dont forget about
those two they have feelings too and you never know when
you will fall out with your friends again. Nits isn't a big problem
even if the girl does have it you just buy a special shampoo
for nits and in 10 mins it will be gone, you could even tell this
to your friend who you suspect has nits i'm sure she will
apresiate the advise.

Lizzie

Ireland

lizrocks@cheerful.com

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