Guidelines For Advice Request

1. All request should be submitted to my email address at the bottom of each page on this site. or by clicking here.
2. Please DO NOT send pictures or explicit material. Questions of a sexual nature are permissible, however vulgarity will not be tolerated.
3. PLEASE...Include your AGE with your letters. Also include the ages of the other people involved.
4. Keep questions to one topic or specific subject. (you may send as many different requests for advice as you wish, however email each one seperately) Be specific as possible. I don't mind reading longer letters (no Novels please)
5. Understand that upon submission of this request, that your letter will be considered for web publishing at this site and that you have granted your permission for me to do so, simply by submitting the request for advice.(I will give you a letter informing you of my intention to publish should I choose to use your letter as my "letter of the Week")
6. I am not a licensed therapist and my advice is purely for entertainment purposes only ( although It is good advise..I have to say this to cover my Tush from lawsuits)
7. Upon receiving your requests, I will reply with my advice as quickly as possible. I am shooting for 10 days to 2 weeks Tops! But please be patient if I should take longer. You may also resubmit your request if you like. Be sure to put "2nd Request" in the subject line when resubmitting a letter. I will put you on the top of the list.
8. DO NOT take my advice as a Personal Attack. Be expecting an opinion based on the question you ask, with little to no knowledge of you personally nor your life, lifestyle, friends, job, race, creed..etc. Please adjust your questions accordingly.
9. I am a Very Open Minded and Opinionated Individual, and I truly enjoy helping people to better understand the world around them, by better understanding themselves and their role in life.I have a tendency to be very straight forward and blunt with my advise and sometimes you may take something that I have said differently then I intended to mean. I do my best to try to compensate for this, however I will not compromise my Morals, Values nor will I try to "SugarCoat" things to make that Bitter Pill of Truth easier to swallow.
10. If possible, just try to think of me as a good friend who only wants to help you to see what is going on around you and perhaps uncover the answer to your problems by showing you a way to a solution. Sometimes I hit the nail on the head and sometimes I am way off base. I rarely get a response to my advice so it's hard to say either way. But on the occasion that someone does reply I've found that 75% of those say I got it right. 20% say I was close but there were some important facts they failed to mention the first time. And the other 5% thought I was a total idiot who didn't have a clue what she was talking about! I think they are all exactly right! Oh well... You can't please all of the people all of the time! Right?!
11. You must, at all times, be open minded, and relaxed and comfortable. This is very important to your quest.. If at any time you feel hesitant about submitting your question, by all means, do not second guess yourself. I can not help you if you are not willing to help yourself.

Peace & Love
Roxanne



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